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by Dr. Adina McGarr | May 22, 2012 | Uncategorized | 0 comments

“Resentment is like taking poison and hoping the other person dies” (Author unknown)

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Are you someone who frequently puts others' needs Are you someone who frequently puts others' needs before your own? For many, it can be hard and unnatural to put yourself first.⁣ ⁣ But self-esteem and peace within don’t come from “people pleasing” or always avoiding confrontation.⁣ ⁣ It's cultivated by doing things you feel good about and that includes taking care of your own emotional well-being.⁣ ⁣ The question of “who am I reacting to..” can be powerful, especially when we are at the crossroads of a decision⁣
Are you someone who takes things in stride? It’ Are you someone who takes things in stride? It’s something I typically have to practice and today I’m practicing. ⁣ ⁣ In my mad dash to deliver kids to their respective camps, my shoe broke and I didn't have time to go home and change before needing to be at the office.⁣ ⁣ The bright side, I sit for my job 😊. Though, I have been entertaining walking with some clients, given that self-directed movement can assist in anxiety reduction. ⁣ ⁣ Don’t underestimate the power of walking, especially outside!⁣
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